In gay erotic literature, however, the concept is near impossible to find.
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While some gay porn actually manages to bring what I would consider true Alpha Males together to produce scenes full of passionate, sizzling hot sex, it is far from the norm. In addition, while we can enjoy a more dominant sexual partner, power and control during straight sex is generally evenly distributed between the partners (I would go as far as to mention that women might even have the greater amount of control during sex). I believe that part of this stems from the fact that, as women, we do prefer men who are rather masculine (at least with regard to sex) in body and attitude. Like most stories geared toward straight men (although decisively different in styles), it simply does not appeal to most women. Yet, being a woman instead of a gay man, I also find myself often disappointed by gay erotic fiction. I, myself, am actually a huge fan of man-on-man sex. Yes, you read that correctly :-) While this might make most of you straight guys flinch (in case any of you ever make it to this blog), the thought of two (or more) men having sex (with other men) actually is rather arousing to a lot of women (although we are not very likely to admit this). Instead of an erotic fantasy, those stories seem more like a very real documentary on psychopaths. The whole erotic aspect of sexual domination was lost, leaving nothing but shocking brutality and victimization behind.
Those stories, vowing to never venture back. I was utterly disgusted and quickly exited
I can'tĮven begin to describe the shock and horror I felt as soon as I got aįew lines into the story. My first actual rape and torture stories. Used to think that I leaned more toward the sadistic side until I read After all, we are looking for absolute sexual domination, not actual rape or torture. Non-consent and sexual enjoyment of the submitting party (even in BDSM scenarios). Is very important to find a truly exciting balance between aspects of The general population does not lean toward strong sadistic streaks, it What is his motivation? What is going through his mind while he is doing this? He made her/him feel. "He did this to her/him, or that to her/him simply isn'tĮnough. To be more than the human equivalent of a robot in order to beĪrousing. Written with focus on the submitting party, the Dominant party still has I have to feel a connection to the Dominant party. It, the story needs to make my imagination bring it to life. Non-consent stories, the focus is often too heavy on the Dominant partyĪnd their actions, rather than the resulting physical sensations andĮmotional responses to those actions that the submitting party Is what really brings a scene (and the characters) to life. Well as emotional responses for every person involved in the act. In any erotic story, it is vital to describe physical sensations as